Not Everything Is What You Think It Is
I’m part of several pagan groups and there seems to be a common theme among some of the post, a lot of it is people thinking that everyone is out to get them. I’m going to tell you that this is probably not the case. Here’s the thing with energy it takes the path of least resistance if you think that people hate you then all your experiences will be negative. You see it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy you are subconsciously putting yourself in positions where you will have the experience you expect.
Now this is not to say that you might not actually have people who don’t like you, not everyone is going to like you and that’s just a fact. However this is something that you might want to think on as you go on from this article. When some one and lets just say it’s you are incredibly self conscious about lets say your weight, it’s a common problem to have body issues, but if you think that people hate you because your weight then you experiences will run the theme of that negativity.
Yes there are people such as bullies who will go out of there way to make you feel like dirt, but think about this, that thing that they make fun of you for is because they are having their own problems and they take it out on you because they can get a reaction and it makes them feel better they have power over you and that’s something they probably don’t have at home. They could feel jealous because your mom is awesome and supports you in everything and at home the bully is neglected and ignored so they choose something that they know they can get a rise out of you and give them that feeling of power.
On the whole most people dont have the time or energy to be “out for you”, I have a bunch of people who have wronged me but i just pushed them out of my life because it’s not worth my energy to deal with them in any way. How you think does indeed have an impact on your life and the energies that manifest around you. Working on yourself and your issues can have a huge impact on your life, I have done the same thing when it came to my self and things going wrong in my life, I’ve dealt with alot of my past issues which is not an easy thing to do, i’ve unfriended people who have caused drama in my life, and i began speaking my own truth not the truth of my mother of the truth of the people around me. I began to own my truth and speak it, yes it makes me unpopular because i don’t pull my punches and i tell it how i see it, I also think before i speak and make sure that i don’t respond with a knee jerk reaction.
The problem with that kind of reaction, the knee jerk, is sometimes a reaction of how you think you should react and not how you actually feel about it. This is the same when it comes to so called “psychic attack”, yes it does happen but not as often as you may think, as pagans there’s a myth that every other pagan that doesn’t like you is psychically trying to get you and this is simply not true. Yes there can be spirits that my “haunt” you but in reality spirits will go to you because it senses that you’re psychically open to them. This makes it easier for them to communicate with you. Yes you should protect your home against negative energies and spirits but no one is out to get you, except that cute guy who keeps eyeing you on the bus, him he wants your number and to get to know you but he’s too shy or thinks his friends wouldn’t approve.
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~Blessings from The Wyrding Wytch